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Huck Finn must be spinning in his literary grave. Just recently a Colorado Springs, Co., elementary school banned tag during recess, joining other schools that have prohibited this childhood pastime. Upon hearing this, I thought about the movement to ban cops and robbers, musical chairs, steal the bacon, and the kill-joys' most frequent target and this writer's favorite childhood school game, dodge ball. Then there's the more inane still, such as the decision by the Massachusetts Youth Soccer Association to prohibit keeping score in kids' tournament play.
There are many ways to describe this trend. One might say it's a result of the left's antipathy toward competition, the increasing litigiousness of the day, or the inordinate concern with self-esteem and hurt feelings. Then, if I am to speak only of my feelings, the word stupid comes to mind. Really, though, regardless of whether the motivations are good or ill or the reasoning sound or not, at the end of the day I find a conclusion inescapable. Slowly, incrementally, perversely, boyhood is being banned.
Make no mistake, the aforementioned examples are not isolated social accidents but part of a pattern. Recently I was talking to a friend who has two young sons, and he mentioned how he bought their toy machine-gun and revolver at a garage sale.
Banning Boyhood |
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Ultraviolence to Kids The new fall season of television has begun. Oh, joy. What creative license has Hollywood taken now? How will this industry top -- because it always must top -- last year's shock? You're a parent. You come home, open the TV book and see listings like this: "BONES (Season Premiere): A skull smashes through the windshield of a car driven by a group of teenagers on the freeway; a trail of suspects leads Brennan and Booth to a strange cannibalistic society." A late-night offering for adults? Think again. Fox airs this gruesome twosome tracking the cannibals at 8 p.m. eastern time, 7 p.m. central, otherwise long known as the "family hour" of prime-time television. Once upon a time, network programmers applied the brakes of restraint during the first hour, because children were watching. Today, they're slamming on the accelerator -- shamelessly offering the forbidden fruits of raunchy sex and ultraviolence to kids. For crude sex jokes, there's the brand-new CBS comedy "The Big Bang Theory." No, this has nothing to do with science. The "big bang" is ... yuk, yuk, yuk. The show is about two physics geeks living across the hallway from a beautiful waitress who is way out of their league.
The Frustrated Family Hour
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HATE THEM Uttering lines that send liberals into paroxysms of rage, otherwise known as “citing facts,” is the spice of life. When I see the hot spittle flying from their mouths and the veins bulging and pulsing above their eyes, well, that’s when I feel truly alive. This happens, I dearly hope, once a week when my column is released. But the public gnashing of teeth that I incite occurs approximately every six to eight months, which is rather peculiar, since I believe I annoy liberals much more often than that.
Liberals and the Woman Who Hates Them |
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Family Concerns
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APPROVAL Many people today live a life of desperation—desperate to fit in, desperate to be accepted, and
desperate to be approved of by others. They become addicted to approval. If you or someone you
know has been addicted to approval, you are aware that it is a miserable way to live. You never
know when someone is going to approve or disapprove of you, and just when you think you have
figured out what they want, they change their mind.
WHAT IS APPROVAL ADDICTION?
First of all, an addiction is something that controls people—it is something they feel they cannot
live without, or something they feel driven to do in order to relieve pressure, pain or discomfort of
some kind. Someone addicted to drugs, for instance, will do whatever he needs to in order to get
another “fix” when he begins to feel uncomfortable. Likewise, someone addicted to alcohol will feel
compelled to have a drink when life’s problems begin to rise up and stare him in the face. The
substance that people are addicted to helps relieve their pain momentarily, but then a damaging
controlling cycle starts in their life.
Approval addiction is much the same....,
Overcoming Approval Addiction
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